just a piece of life...
was chatting with one of my close friend..and happen to thought on this topic..controllable fate and uncontrollable...fairness of life and un-fairness of life...
fate~
something that we can change and can't change...
we can't chose what date we want to be born, cant chose our parents, our siblings..and our background...
but we can change things after that, improving background, build bond with family...etc..
if you believe in fate, you will leave everything to it, having the thought what is your will be yours, what is not is not...is it right?
those who may not believe, believe in strongly fighting for what they want as they believe fates lie in their hand...but is it true?
Or is it~ we can change a lot of things through our decisions those are the factors we can control but at the same time there are lots of things we can never change cause they are things that we cannot change..so which is fate? the factors we can change or the factors we can't change?
or is it that fate is everything? every decision we make and everything that is happening is already planned and we are just going through the flow in making that decision...so what is fate exactly?
honestly...i dunno..
here is the definition that i search:
Fate is the supposed force, principle, or power that predetermines events, as well as the inevitable events predestined by this force. Those who believe in fate, believe (whether directly or indirectly) that their stay on earth has been decided long before they became a resident of said planet. So here we are, an insignificant blurb, on a planet not bigger than a speck of dust (in the grand scheme of things), hurtling (seemingly) endlessly through space, progressing towards some fate decided by the cosmos and therefore out of our understanding. We can, however, at least try to grasp what it truly means to accept fate and then determine whether or not to believe in it. So...
so which is this pointing to?
complicated...i am thinking too much....i dunno whether to believe in it or not, but i will still fight for what is mine, at the same time i will submit to fate if i need to...so what kind of believer i am?
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that is a thinking topic for readers...for the past 20 years of mine did i predict and control it to be in this way?or is it fate? or a mix?
Part 2: fairness and unfairness of life..
is life fair or unfair?
life is both fair and unfair..
life is fair in giving you 1 thing and not giving you another..just like some kids who are deem not normal, so call 傻人..they don't have the intellectual, but be surprise they are given happiness...
they live their life happily..are we? most of us live in this condition:
since young we have been told whatever you do after that will be happiness,
if you pass your PSLE with good grades your parents are happy, you go into secondary school you are happy....is it?
Following, if you pass your O levels with good grades your parents are happy, you go into further studies you are happy? really?
You go into tertiary education if you do well your parents are proud of you and you can work and earn money you are happy? how true?
you start working and think, if i earn money and i can buy the things I want and i will be happy?how many things do you need to buy to be happy?
when actually, being happy is being contented with what you have isn't it?but say is easy, doing it is another story...cause i can't do it myself too...
back to fairness...
ever being punish for bad deed you did not do?
ever being scolded when its not your fault?
did you complain this way: why is it me, me,me, me, me and me...why me?this is something that i never do...why is it me that needs to be punish...why me?this is so not fair...
look in another way...
did you ever complain:
why am i not caught for my bad deeds..why why why..why am i not caught? why am i not caught? i am suppose to be caught but i am not caught..so unfair...
did you?
at times, take it as a compensation...though you did not do it, but treat it as a punishment of the bad deeds you did previously and not being caught...isnt it better den complaining why is it me?
haha..but i am not tat noble..cause saying is easier den doing..cos i am also always complaining why is it me....
these are some food for the brain...to think think think... especially people like me...feed my brain with some food or it will shrink... =P
have good nite thinking.. =D
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