Parents are all the same!!!

I realise most parents are the same. And i am sure i am not the only one going through what i am going through. In SP Env club there are girls that are going through the same thing ba.

Feel frustrate because parents are controlling too much? Feel they KPO too much? Feel there is no freedom? Feel they treat you like a young kid? Nagging? This are what i am going through and i feel most of your had went through it.

I remember i rebeled once, i was then very rebellious, can't see right? Not very la, just defy orders. Then i was really tied until i could not breathe. I was damn frustrated i rebeled. What i rebel i will not say here. But now? Changed, i became a gil who is very guai. Ever ask myself why...and here are the explanations.

None of the 3 kids at my house would want to let my mum angry. We respect her as our mum. She does not have very good mental health. I remember when i was young she use to chase me around with the cane. I regret making her angry. We love her as our mother, we respect her as one, we feel the pain of her carrying both my brothers at once, carrying me the second for 10 months. We feel her suffering when we were kids. We are able to forgive her even she scold us wrongly, because she is our mother. Many will rebutt back to their mum, and feels human rights are still there, but sometimes, we can swollow down. All for a reason that she vrought me up. MAny thinks that she bring me up so? wat rights does she have to control me? All because she is your mother, and what she is doing is becuase she loves us. At times we dun see this until we become parents ourselves. Different parents love their kids in different ways, but no parents will not love their children.

father, when we were young haha, nobody dare to make him angry, all afraid of his whacking. We use to call it "UFOs" i got many whackings till i cannot rmb how many i got. The worse? Crashing of my room with my brother shielding me. Or i will not exist here. but now,i am a daddy's girl! Haha, even though now daddy objects in a lot activities i wanted to participate, i really do understand, cos he worry for my safety, one sentence which he said that really touch down in to my heart was"如果你出事的话那我不是没有女儿了" this truly show he truly care for me. That is why at times his objection makes me give in. Though i will give in, but if i really wants to participate in the activities, jsut beggin him a few times, he will give in too. His care for me is not normal, he doesn't really show it out, but show it in a indirectly manner.

So parents are still parents. =) smiles, i am already accepting them as who they are. They are not perfect, they scold me for no reasona times. Unless there is really a need i wont rebutt back to them.

(i duno why i am talking abt this post.)

Happy valentines day to everyone =|

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