People Judging People.

Another post which i written in my previous blog, which I am bring it forward here. Kindly reminded by ZHI HAO as, we were talking about judging people =) ENJOY!

People judge people.But who are we to judge people?Many times we pick on peoples' bad points and flaunt it out. But did we judge ourselves? No one is perfect in the world,so no one has the right to judge how good or how bad someone is.Let alone talking behind their back.

Judging people is fun.But being judge is never likable.How were u feel if u were judge?definitely very BAD, I never like the feeling of being judged.So why can't we be a bit more sensitive to one another accept someone as who he/she is? Easier said than done we as humans always lack to view this point.

Many times, I see this world as man eat man world. You don't stab my back, soon, i will stab yours. Sort of like 胜者为王，败者为抠。Do we really have to win to be king? What is the point of stabbing people's back when he/she never hurt you in any other way. Even he/she did, if you stab his/her back what makes you different from him/ her.

Or is this the world I must get use to? Is this the world i am suppose to live in after growing up?

I am not perfect too.Everyone is not. But i am not denying that Thoughts of how bad this person is or that person is,never did come across my mind.But just keep it in yourself.Or simply, shut up. If anyone bring it up, just simply, "I dun wish to talk about it." [at times I do talk, but don't really remember much too=P] As for backstabbing, yet to learn it...just kidding.

I am trying accept who he/she is cause it is just one of his/her flaws which in turn can be their good points.Everyone has flaws.As long as we try to close one eye don't u think life will be better?being very very very fussy will take u no where.but to the point where one will be almost friendless.Try to tolerate a bit.Keep some negative comments to yourself,praise people more you will be surrounded by more friends, but never over do it. Cause will sound sarcastic.

Give comments ya but constructive ones that will not hurt people.Give advises in ways to show you care for them. This will help them to improve their flaws maybe they can be a better person.

But why not start doing it by judging yourself, and improve one's character be a better person.Hmmm...How much more to learn, how much more to see? What is a model answer person, and what is not?Hmmm...don't think I can perfect too, there are sure to be times where I talk bad about people too. But when? How? And what is the limit? =(

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